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Hello. Im a girl, only 12 years old. I have a younger brother, i live with him. Along with my stepdad, mom, and grandma. Ok so i need some help here.
I love playing video games! I will play for long amounts of time I will say! But for a couple days, ive been huting super bad in my foot. It hurts pretty bad too! And sometimes i don't even want to walk. I have come to find out that I get very vurbley abused a lot. And today, my foot just hurt the WORST! It didn't hurt that bad during the day. I also got to hang out with my bestie for a while. We went to go ride on our things. I rode on my skateboard. And it started to hurt pretty badly when i was riding. I wanted to cry. I was trying my best to hold it in because i know my parents would either one, get mad at me for crying because i would be acting like a "baby" or two, I would just be emmbarrased for crying in front of my best friend! So i held it in. I came back home and hopped on my xbox. It wasn't hurting to bad because i was sitting down. Later my mom yelled that I had to go to bed. So i get up to brush my teeth, and the pain in my foot just overloaded. I felt like someone just was stabbing my ankle, every second i would put pressure on it, I limped my way up to my mom to give her a hug goodnight. She said it was just growing pains, and told me to just take some medecine. Oh yeah. Medicine doesnt hekp for me btw. I started to tear up a bit, but didnt complin because i know i would get in trouble. so I crawled to bed and cryed a bit... my mom came in and saw i was crying. just fir the fun of it she told me to take my dog out. I limped outside crying. my mom got mad at me. And my dog wasnt coming back to me nor listing to me. my dad then came out. he strted to yell at me. I told him why i was crying. He didnt beleive me. He just told me it was a cramp, because i sit around all day playing video games all day and eating junk food with no water. But, i drink a lot of water every day. So i told him and he just said, "well obviously not enough." then he makes fun of me for how skinny and scronny i am, and tells me that i need junk food. I don't understand him... I have tried to commit twice. anyway, he just kept not beleiving me at all. On top of that i had to chase my puppy around our yard because he thought i was playing, and wouldnt go back inside. Then my dad told me that i was just having a fit because i had to get off my xbox, and i didnt want to go to bed and listen to my mom. But that wasnt the case! i was hurt! And plus, he was screaming at me, which gave me panick attack. well, idk if it was or wasnt this is how i felt...
I couldnt take a deep breath
i was shaking rapidly
i couldnt breath
it felt like crying hic ups.
So idk if it was, but sure felt like one! And my dad was just screaming at me for at least 15 minutes before he stopped, and left my room. Then I cryed for about 2 hours, then came on here. I just need something or someone that can help. I feel like i have many mental heath probloms, i have talked to my parents about a therapist, but they all just told me i was overreacting... Idk whaty i should do.
-Thanks for reading this far if you have... hope you can help :(
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Hey! I'm 12 too and coincidentally, I also have foot problems, lol. I'm really sorry about your dad and how mean he is, no one should ever do that, especially with your mental health being serious. I hope your life gets better, and you can talk to me any time. :)
Replyokay thank you so mcuh! My parents are just so selfish!
ReplyThat is not the reasonable response any parent should have, I am so sorry. If you still go to school in person, maybe you could try going to the nurse’s office? I’m not sure if that is good advice, but it’s the best idea I have as to what you could do about it on your own.
I’ve been dealing with a foot injury myself for months now. It can really put a halt to a lot of things in life, and the pain is no joke. So I have some idea about what you’re talking about, and you’re not alone in this.
I truly hope that your situation can improve more—Any pain you feel is completely valid, and you deserve to be respected and loved. <3
ReplyGo on wiki how and learn how to massage your leg in a safe way. Then try that out. It could be about pent up stress that you never let out. You should try writing and roleplaying and painting and expressing your self.
Replyhey there hunny <3
i am so sorry you have to go through this, parents suck sometimes... They think they are doing what is best bust arent taking the right approach to help.
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ReplyThis can go for everyone too right? So if we need to talk to someone too can we talk to you?
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ReplyI'm sorry that you are going through this. I hope everything works out and reward yourself for being here. Everyday is a achievement for you being on this earth. For some advice, go to the nurse and tell them about your foot. If your not doing online school maybe considering going over to your friends and tell them about your foot. Maybe they will take you to the doctors so then your mom and stepdad would listen. Other than that, stay strong!
ReplyHey sweety,
You should take some rest. Foot and leg pain is common in children, it's referred to as growing pain, because you're growing. It could be that. But even then, you should talk to your school nurse about the pain.
I am sure your mom loves you, maybe she doesn't realize what you're going through. I am 27 but I know that children have problems too. I have had way too many growing up. So talk to your teacher if you think your parents don't hear you.
But never suffer in silence.
I am sure you're an amazing kid, and I hope you feel alright soon. Talk to your teacher, okay? Or, you can also search for helpline numbers in your country to just talk to someone. Take care!
ReplyI would go to the school nurse, and tell them how much your foot is hurting. When it hurts that bad you can absolutely ask them for help.
Most importantly,
You are loved.
You are beautiful.
You deserve to be happy.
You deserve to be happy.
ReplyHi OP! I am 13 but I can relate to you A LOT!!!!!!!!!!!!
https://novni.com/letters/read/279222/my-father-makes-me-uncomfortable thats my story. i have my socials in the comments if u ever wanna talk
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