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so like literally a few days ago i had this dude say that he liked me but i wasnt sure i felt the same so i was just like hey you know were really close and id be interested in seeing where our relationship goes but im not sure if thats a *relationship* relationship. but then within two days he starts dating this other girl? it just feels weird idk like there was almost no time in between him confessing to me and dating this other girl but im really not sure whether thatβs a bad thing or not haha
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Um yes that's a bad thing lmao. You can't "see where this relationship goes" with someone who's dating.
If two people (person A and B) have a "see where this goes" agreement, then they will not be dating other people while in that agreement. For example, if person A gets into a relationship with someone who is not person B, the agreement is no more. That's because it was made for the purpose of potentially finding a lover in person B. Person A has now found a different lover and the "see where this goes" phase w/B is over.
Did he agree to the "see where this goes" thing? (I feel like im saying that phrase way too much lol). If so, then he should not be dating or seeing anyone else, aka, that girl π
The fact that he said he liked you and then got with some other girl in 2 days screams f*** boy and commitment issues. You don't want that. Run for the hills and find someone else π¨π°π°π₯ who ONLY likes YOU and is CLEAR and HONEST (!!!) with their feelings towards you.
(Did he clearly say he liked you in a romantic/relationship sorta way??? Or did he not specify that? Also I hope this comment is coherent bc I've read it over so many times that I don't even know if it is anymore)
Replyhey its the op here :)
but yeah he did agree to the seeing where things go type of deal and seemed happy with it? or at least understanding lol
also he did pretty explicitly say that he liked me romantically so im just kind of lost with how to feel about him after this lol
Replyat last he is a playboy...lol
ReplyYou are lucky that you did not get serious with someone who treats love as a game.
cheers!!!
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