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I'm tierd of being treated like a little kid by my friends. I'm not Cat!
2 years ago · 2 · Need Advice, +5
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Hi I'm 17 but my friends treat me like I'm 15 or something. They think I'm cat from victorious but I'm not and I'm getting annoyed by it. My best friend is a year younger than me and yet she's taller and treats me like I'm younger. I don't blame them I mean all my friends are very tall and I'm 5'3 so to them I seem little. They're also a bit more on the curvy side so there is a bit of a visual difference. I have a young face that makes me look I think too innocent and on top of it all I'm very shy and anxious. When we play games everyone stops to cheer me on and it makes me uncomfortable because they all encourage me way more than anyone else. I'm like is what am I doing so bad that you need to cheer me on like I'm 2. I'll literally make the worst move and they'll cheer me on then when someone else does they laugh at them. I'm literally 17 and that got old real quick. I want to tell everyone off and start taking command instead of my best friend always talking down to me. I want to look and act older but I simply never have and I don't know what to do. I don't want to be treated like a pet I want them to know me and I want to flirt with guys and I want some damm respect because these people have no idea who they're talking to. They think I'm this innocent thing that's never seen the world. The other day someone swore and my best freind said "careful thiers a baby in the car" and I said "I'm literally older than you. I'm not cat!"
So please help me get some respect and act my age I need help.
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ReplyHi, I'm Faith and I'm almost 21 now. I'm afraid I was always much like you. I'm only 5'1, barely fit into a A cup bra, still get ID'ed for 15 films. And my two closest friends are both only 19 but always treat me like I'm the youngest. I have a boyfriend, neither of them ever have. I do act grown up most of the time. But you see no matter how you act or how grown up you are. If you look like a baby then people will treat you like one. I've struggled with this all my life. So the only advice I can give is just imbrace it.
I like to think even though I get treated like a baby now at least when I'm older I'll still look young and I can be a milf haha. Just think about it, everyone you know will be looking all old in there 40's and you'll look like you're only in your 20's. Then people will be jealous.
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