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I’m experiencing a lot of mixed emotions right now. I got really drunk the other day and a guy got pretty handsy with me. At the time I just let him do whatever because it physically felt good, and the next morning I felt fine with it. But, at the end of the day I started feeling really gross and embarrassed with myself. I feel bad because I feel that I’m villainizing the guy in my head even though it’s not like I told him to stop or anything. I enjoyed it in the moment, but severely regret it now. Is it possible to physically enjoy something even when you don’t necessarily want it?
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Have some respect and don't let a guy do that to you again. I wonder what guys would think if girls were disrespectful to them like that?
ReplyA lot of people do things in the moment that feel good and then come to regret it later on. Especially when you are drunk, it's much harder to think rationally when you're intoxicated. It's not awful to villainize this guy because it doesn't sound like his intentions were great. Try not to dwell on it too much. If you do this kinda thing again you'll probably feel a lot of regret afterwards again. It's such a different feeling to have a sexual experience with someone that you know cares about you and has your best interests in mind as well as their own. Even if it is a casual sexual thing and it's not a romantic connection, you wanna be doing that with people that want you to feel comfortable and safe. A lot of people use sex like drugs, for that instant gratification without thinking about the long term and this kind of attitude isn't going to be fulfilling for you in any way. But also, how would you know to avoid this without having this experience and learning from it. What's done is done and you will be ok.
ReplyIt is possible to physically enjoy something even when you don't want it... IF you were tricked into feeling it was something it wasn't. Clear as mud?
Alcohol will always lead to poor decisions; plays tricks on your mind, there is no way around this. In the future be careful with your consumption of alcohol.
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