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When you first told the father of your child/children you was pregnant, what was their response? Was it positive, negative?
If not living together, how often did they ask of the well-being of the unborn child?
Did they show any interest?
I’m a mother to be, it’s my first child. The fathers has said he’d be involved and claims to be excited about becoming a father but has shown no interest in the well-being of myself or the child.
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What do you mean by "shows no interest"? has he not given into specific demands you've made?
ReplyHe hasn’t asked to see my bump, whether I get movements, when’s my first scan, nothing. All he’s asked is what I’ve been craving, that is literally it. There’s literally no real concern for the well-being of our child.
ReplyThe father of my first child was angry that I was pregnant and took off.
I was married to the father of my second child. When I was pregnant he said she wasn't his and did not want the responsibility. All he cared about was his mother.
I was engaged to the father of my third child. He was so nasty I was on the verge of a nervous breakdown when I left him. Then a big mouth told him where I was and he wanted to marry me but living with him for a year was a nightmare.
The father of my fourth child was the same as the father of my first.
Now my kids have all grown up and I am very happy living with my dog.
ReplyThank you for replying. I am so sorry that you had to experience this. Your children are very lucky to have you.
ReplyYou just tell him what you expect. Do not expect him to read your mind. That isn't fair to him. After telling him your expectations, he will either comply, or he won't. Then you can make whatever decision you want to make based on the results you have been given.
Personally, the father of my children is not complying. And I refuse to force him to change just because I want him to. That's unfair. He can be whomever he wants to be. I just don't have to be with him while he is whoever he wants to be. So, once I have a little money saved up, he can comply with the court orders for child support and have the freedom to find happiness with someone else. Cause right now, his future happiness will not be with me.
ReplyThanks for replying. Yeah, we’re due to have a conversation about everything. So I’m going to lay it all out on the table.
Sorry to hear about that. Hope it goes all well with the court orders.
ReplyI assume you are not living together from the questions you are asking. Wouldn't it be fair to say that it is your body and therefore your decision to tell him what is going on with your body as you see fit and ask him to join you during ultrasounds?
If he asks these questions of you, he could be construed as invading your privacy. I would volunteer the information and then see what happens. But, make sure you are standing in front of him when you tell him. You can judge the reaction.
ReplyI don’t believe you have understood the question. But thank you for your response.
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