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I've been talking to this person since March. It started off strong and we were really into one another. We went on a few dates and then out of nowhere it was a month of our schedules not lining up. Still texted each other every day and kept the conversation alive and we eventually lined up our schedules again and started seeing each other once a week or so. We went on road trips and were having a really good time. I fell for them pretty quickly but they wanted to get themselves sorted out emotionally before we start a relationship. I felt weird about that but I understood it. Months go by and we keep the same pace. I start to think it isn't going anywhere but then they have me meet their family. We kissed a few times too. But then we come in two weeks ago. They start not liking any of my jokes and becoming really distant. we were texting once or twice a day and I was always the one starting the conversation. We had plans to go to a baseball game on the fourth with their family and I had turned down all my other plans to make these work. When I bring up the fact that they aren't treating me the best they say they're just super busy and don't have any time to reply. I have worked very time-consuming jobs and I still always find the time to reply so it seems like a cop-out. Yesterday I decided to not text first and see what happens. Not a single text was exchanged. They're clearly pulling away and I feel as if I don't reply it'll just be over. Should I let it go and just move on? Should I formally say hey I'm done with this but I wish you the best in life or do I just kinda let it fizzle out by not texting anymore? I really care for them but I'm not going to put myself through all the stress and anxiety this causes.
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if texting causes you stress and anxiety pick up the phone and talk to them. much better than wondering why they haven’t text. yes, you can see someone pulling away from you when they text less and less. you can also misunderstand that they may be going through something and your companionship really does mean something to them, perhaps even is what they look forward to. ask them, don’t assume.
ReplyThey never answer my calls and they always say they're too busy to talk on the phone, unfortunately.
ReplyIt's time to move on from them. There is someone out there who will appreciate your time and effort more and will show it to you. You deserve better. 💜
ReplyThis is the new trend, I suppose. People don't want to take responsibility for hurting someone else so they just go and disappear as if that makes anything better?!
Why don't these idiots understand that by doing this kind of crap, you put people like the original poster here, in a REALLY FUCKING HARD SPOT!!
What? Was he/she not fucking good enough for you? Was it getting too boring for you? What's the fucking deal?!
Nope! Here's the bottom line and you can take my word for whatever it's worth or not. Your choice.
If I were you, I'd tell them to kindly FUCK OFF because I ain't playing that game again! NO!
If you can't be bothered to fucking set your weak ass ego aside and tell me straight that you're just over it, you don't want me. Then why'd you bother getting involved in the fucking first place?! Huh?
Fuck that shit! If you're not worth their time and energy then return the god damn favor and maybe do everyone a courtesy and light a fire under their ass fir their inability to own up to the fact that they just aren't fucking interested!!
Thus shit isn't fucking acceptable!! You gonna walk away at the very FUCKING LEAST you can come and say goodbye to my face!! Fucking coward!!
That's just how I feel about it. For what it's worth, I am sorry they did this to you and you do deserve better.
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