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He can't even stand by himself. He always keeps murmuring something. Always call my mom and say what will happen now. My mom is fed up with him. She cares for him. But this situation is also draining up her positive energy.
He ask for doing potty after every 15 minutes. Then my brother has to help him in carrying him from the bed to the potty seat. My brother's exams are near. He can't even focus on his studies because of this all.
I help my mom in kitchen and doing other household works as much I can. I too have to study and attend college. My exams are near as well.
But because of my grandfather our life is messed up.
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If your grandfather is that much of a bother for you all why doesn't your mother put him into a nursing home?
ReplyI went through the same thing with my grandmother. I wish the best for you and your family. I know it is anything but easy.
ReplyHi, I went through this exact situation last year before I lost my grandfather. I will straight up just tell you that no matter how draining it gets, if you keep finding him as a burden than you will regret not doing more when he is gone. I don't know how close you were to him but I was extremely close to mine, he took care of me when I was younger and without him, there won't be me today. I had to change his diapers several times at night and in the day, cook for him and be there for him till he was in palliative care. When he left us, I was distraught but I know I won't live with the regret of not doing enough. Advice is to try to be more patient, put yourself in his shoes being unable to take care of himself and having to rely on others, how would you feel? Don't regret it when he is gone, do what you can now. I promise you, it will be worth it.
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