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This “friend” is a 13 year old who thinks that she can’t be held responsible just because she’s young and gets easily triggered.
(Let’s call her Psycho since she calls herself that)
I been passive with her all the time but yet she gets triggered when I am giving out nice criticism to her and when I am just agreeing with my friends that criticize her. She admitted to saying that she is completely innocent and that I am in the total wrong which that isn’t true since she exploded on me with her anger, and I wanted her to apologize for her anger then I’ll apologize to her but she refused.
I am a logical person and I don’t want to baby an emotional 13 year old who can’t admit to her own mistakes.
Her friend even supports Psycho and tells me that I have to go more easy on her, sweet-talk her, and tell her that everything is okay and I am not upset at her.
Her friend also said to me that Psycho was really offended by me and cried for 30 minutes then cried again in VC with her friend. Psycho also self-harms and has mental problems.
I’m sorry but this feels like a huge manipulation to me since Psycho was problematic in the past but she doesn’t want me to look at her past since it’s “over with” and can’t change the past. I don’t want this 13 year old to have more power over me and I can’t let my guard down.
If Psycho is actually having a lot of mental problems, she just needs to stay off social media and get a therapist. All my friends who know her personally despise, hate, or dislike her.
The only one who defended Psycho is her friend.
What does Psycho think of me? She really wanted to be friends with me and liked to tease me all the time. I don’t really like her teasing even though it seemed harmless but I had to hide it and play it along. She likes to role-play and really liked to slap and smack me whenever she wants. Then she hugs me after that and begs me to help her with something.
What should I do? I don’t want to set off her trigger again and I don’t want to look like the bad guy in this situation.
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Is she taking meds?
ReplyIdk.
ReplyHow were her parents towards her? Maybe it's about how she was raised. Maybe she has a dad that constantly puts her and her mom down because they're women
ReplyI don’t know about her parents and the parenting she gets.
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