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My mom is engaged to her boyfriend and I don’t like him. I am great full because he’s basically raised me but I do not like him. My father passed away when I was younger so I can’t just go and live with him. But my moms fiancé hits me and threatens me. Just like tonight he hit me because I said yeah to my mom when she called me and he said it’s disrespectful and it’s not like I said it on purpose I said it on accident. It was one of those moments where it just comes out. But he’s been hitting me ever since I was younger and he’s also hit me even though I did nothing wrong. My moms just sits back and watch, she doesn’t stand up for me or care about my feelings. I’m 17 and got five months till I’m 18. What do I do ? I don’t want then to split up and then my mom blame me? I don’t know what to do.
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you should really talk to a counsellor or and older person you trust about this issue, or maybe just move out if you have the means to. i’m so sorry this is happening to you. i hope you can get the help you need, as this is not how anyone should be treated in their own home. stay strong 🖤
ReplyI want to emphasize that you are not responsible for the pain he is causing you. If their engagement blows up because you tell your mom he is hitting you, that’s not your fault. Your mother should’ve prioritized your safety and well-being over a boyfriend. I’m sorry. Please go find a trusted adult. I don’t know how much I can help, but if you need help finding scholarships for your area to get financially independent and in college, I’ll save this tab so I can help you look
Replyi was abuded growing up and my mom did nothing depending on where you are if you 17 you can leave i know it will be hard but sometimes moving away is the best thing 2 do and about the mom my mom did not help 2 she was also being abused i know that not an excuse it a reason try to talk to her when he is not there
ReplyYour mother is accountable for any suffering her fiancé brings upon you. It's beyond irresponsible of her to keep quiet and let these happen. Seek help for an elderly you trust who can attempt a fix.
ReplyFirst, I'm sorry you lost your dad and that you are going through this. Is there anyone else you can live with? Call the cops. Your mom is not standing up for you, which means you need to take this into your own hands (unless there is another family member/friend you can talk to). If you can get him on video hitting you and give it to the cops, that would be sufficient. When you're 18, leave the house. No one should be abused or harassed in their own home. I hope that he goes to jail and that your mom starts caring for you and grows a heart.
-AP
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