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3 years ago I had a crsuh on a guy who studies at the same college as me I didn't wanna show him my feelings so I acted as if I don't like him so we stopped talking....3 months ago I got out of a very toxic relationship and I started talking to my old crush again and I realized that I never stopped liking him and he told me that he had a crush on me too back then and he thought that I hated him....also he told me that he still likes me to this day so it's mutual we've been talking for like 3 months now (he told me he liked me a month ago I guess) the problem here is that he's taking things really slow and I'm so impatient cause its already been 3 years I wanna be in a relationship with him the other problem is that he only asked me once to go on a date and I refused cause I have strict parents and he didn't ask me again what should I do ? My previous relationship ended because of lack of efforts from my ex I'm afraid this will happen again cause I really like this guy ....
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Its good to take it slow, you'll get to know each other first like that and it can only be good in the long run..... When you go too fast, you can get some surprised when you already in it, and spent teh time, better to get it clear from the start. If you wanted to go the long term. If he likes you really he will wait, and if that's not how it goes, and he goes somewhere else......then he was not right for youanyway
ReplyI've gone through a similar situation I believe. I'm not very good when it comes to advice, but I do have some words of encouragement. I think it would be a good idea to talk to this guy about these feelings. And what I've always lived by, is that if he doesn't understand/thinks that you're just overreacting or being too committed, then you probably shouldn't waste your time. And I understand that it's easier said than done, but trust me, almost nothing is worse than having to waste your time for a guy. But if he does understand, maybe you should try to see what both of you would be willing to do to fix it. But also remember that he had feelings too, and try to listen to what he says as well.
Best of luck,
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