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i hate who I am so much. I am always comparing myself to my best friend. I love her a lot and I never have hated her or gotten mad at her out of jealousy, I'm more mad at myself. It seriously makes me so upset when every conversation I am a part of, she is mentioned. I have always been replaced with her. Compared to her. Put down because of her. I am so unhappy with myself in the first place. I wish people would take the hint and realize I don't want to hear it anymore...I am so sick of hearing that I'm less attractive compared to her and that I'll never be as good as she is. I GET it. The worst part of it all is that it's my own friends that are saying that. My crush too. I hate that. I'd rather get bullied by random strangers in the hallways at school.
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Do you try to be like her?
Replyno not at all... i dont want to be like her :( i am my own person but im just constantly put down and compared to her
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Replyim sorry but what do you mean by that?
ReplySimple answer. Stay away from people who devalue you. You are just as unique and beautiful as that girl. As a human we have weak hearts so we take too seriously about what others say. Stay away.
Replythank you so much for the advice... i really appreciate it!
ReplyHi... I just needed to say that it's okay to feel how you feel. We're humans and things can get to us. Anyways, I feel talking to your best friend about it will help you a lot. Based on how you described her, she seems like a really great person, and I'm sure she will understand you, and it will just make you feel better! I know it's not good being heard those stuff that you hear, and I just also wanted to say that what those so called friends and your crush are saying, are not good. I feel like you shouldn't get close to those friends because if they were true friends, they wouldn't even be saying that to you. For your crush, he should really stop that too, because that's not nice. I hope you realize that you deserve to be treated better than that, and that no one should compare you to another person, because all in all, we are all unique people and we have our own strengths and characteristics that make us who we are. I hope you feel better!! ^-^
Replywow! Thank you so much for the amazing advice and support :) I really appreciate it and I will try talking about it with my friend today. Thank you so much!!!
ReplyTalk to your friend, be open and honest. You are a valuable, unique and beautiful person don't let anyone convince you otherwise. As for your crush, talk to him to. If he's not interested at least you'll know and can move on to meet the one that is. Find the people who love you for you.
ReplyI did talk to my friend about it actually ! She was super supportive, kind and understanding. Thank you so much for your comment :)
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