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I want to move on from my last relationship. I tried to move on to another guy but it happened too soon and I think it just confused me. It's been a year and a half and another guy has tried talking to me. I friendzoned him and let him know I'm not ready for any romantic affection at the moment. When I told him all this it really made me realize I never did try to heal. I was the victim in an abusive relationship and I was the one who cut ties with him, but why do I feel like the bad guy? I've stopped trying to tell people what happened because they always say I should've known better and they just scold me for sending him explicit photos. I agree, I should've been smarter and shouldn't have done the things I did, but it just feels like nobody understands me. It feels like nobody gives a crap that I was manipulated by him and he made me hurt myself. In the end it's like I'm not sure if I'm the villain or the victim anymore and it's so hard to move on. I just want someone to hug me and say it's alright. I want someone to tell me it wasn't my fault for getting hurt. I'm just tired of people telling me to toughen up.
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More than likely someone else sent the photos....anyone who has done that is horrible and it is NOT your fault. It has happened to many people...many...so as much as it hurts do NOT let them get to you because that is exactly why they do it. It does not make you a bad person for what someone else has done......people are sick in the head for doing such things to someone......someday they WILL get theirs....you wait and see.
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