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04 OCT 2021
I'm too confused. yesterday my father and i fought over a thing and now its kept running in my head as i feel like it changed everything around me.
about the fight:
ever since i start going out, i used to tell the elderly people in the house at the moment. so same goes here i tell my mother and go out. it’s been months i didn't tell my father where i going and all, because he never asked and i thought its cool for him. so i was relaxing going on.
so over the fight he used some harsh words over and he said there are some rules coming up on 10th so until that he asked me to enjoy and after 10th i cant do anything on my own.
the conversation started like below:
dad: Now days you don't tell or ask permission from us to where ever u want to go right. Is it right or miss using the trust or freedom
me: if u think it’s right, you wouldn’t have this question. I'm living my life. that’s it
dad: Good. You are crossing your line
me: what i did?
yes i was rude because i was angry with him because he is in overseas now and he never make time for me. i got too jealous as he have time for other why don't me. so that anger make me talk all this nonsense.
and he also msged my boyfriend asking : I'm still the father for my daughter. Will you allow this to happen in your family? Think
this made me somemore upsad with him. why he got to tell/ask him like this? the mistake is with me. not him. now my boyfriend is keeping distance with me because he don't want any other issue to come from us going out or spending time.
i have asked sorry to my father but still it hurts. i cant move on my day like usual because I'm scared he will tell something bad or put some strict rules to follow. omg. i cant do this. i love to be independent. i love my life as it is. i can do all things myself and i love it. and why all this suddenly. i cant take it.
i feel very alone. i have no friends. only my boyfriend. he have been very supporting to him. he is my everything now.
this is really a big struggle to be born in a brown family. and ya i always do my responsibilities well like taking very good results, doing my business, keep the room clean, take care of my mom and all. and why this now?
i really hope one day my father reads all this and understands me. I'm a teenage girl, its like my golden age to explore the world, have fun, experience new things. obviously, in order to do all this, my family time will be less as I'm more spending time on myself. why don't my father didn't understand all this. my father literally gave me the world and now he talks like he want to put rules and all. it is really scary and takes my peace away. if all this happens, this is not me.
thank you for reading. Please Tell Me What To Do, at least tell me what u feel after reading this. i really need help. im losing myself.
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This looks like your father is worried that you will get into some sort of trouble and maybe even fall pregnant so he is reining you in. He doesn't want to have to handle any trouble that you may get into. Imagine that you are a parent with a daughter who is going out here and there doing her own thing. You would be worried too.
But he should allow you a certain amount of freedom as you have to learn from your mistakes and experiences. Try to work out a schedule with him where you tell him when you go out and let him know where you are going and arrange times where you have some freedom. Talk to him about this.
Replythank you so much. this helps.
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