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Yesterday is my birthday.
I have 2 different IRL friend circle. One big group consists 7 people while the other is smaller, just 3 people. The people (except me) in two groups know each other since all of us graduated from the same junior high school, but the guys in big group see the two guys from small group as only classmate (they dont really "click" As they put it) and vice versa. but I've been friends with all of them ever since our school days and each guys from both groups knows and fine with it.
Every year, both groups will unconditionally send congratulatory message to each member on their birthday. We will send a text since we're all busy studied in different college and town.
Last year, most of us reach 22 of ages and the guys from big group decided to exchanges gifts for the very 1st time. After that, we hung out, drink together, and eat junk foods together like usual. Meanwhile the small groups im in are never one to throw a party and send gifts, but will always send messages and vidcalls since we are all lives on different town.
This year, most of us are working. The one girl from big group who was born on early months only receives congratulatory from me and a few others, but some of my friends from said groups buy her gifts without consulting the others.
Same goes with another girl who was born 3 months. She got gifts, but not from everyone since the one who bought it didnt consult the others.
Yesterday was my turn aka my birthday. I was expecting congratulatory message just like last years, but it didnt come. Neither did from my smaller group friends.
I am worried. This never happened before.
Did I do something wrong? Or is it because they're all busy with college and work while I am still busy looking for jobs and attend job interviews— in shorts, i'm hella broke. My family is also not well off like the others so I've been busy working on cheap art commission to help buy groceries, so I firstly thought that perhaps just like me, we are all just busy. After all, both group chats are not so noisy like last year.
But I am anxious. I cant shake the fear that they no longer think of me as my friends. Both groups are the only people that I consider best friends for 11 whole years after all.
What should I do?
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