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My incapability of getting girls and love in general (which made me really depressed) oriented me to focus more on my self and made me obliged to forget about them , but it seems that i am really obsessed with girls , like whenever i see a girl that is attractive on street or even in the internet makes me remember my obsession and it makes me depressed .. cuz i want to not care about them anymore , i want to delete them from my field of vision , i want my thoughts to be on something else .. is there any way i can do that ?
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Mmm. Its hard to rewire your brain on something your brain really loves. Your brain probably view woman as visually pleasing and trigger reward center in brain.
And It sounds like you want to stop being interested in girls because you cant get them. Just because its pleasing to you doesnt mean you have to have it. Learn to admire but from far. Also Its better idea to think differently about situation with girls because simply, girls are everywhere. Instead of “I gotta forget/ignore them” its better to just face it and think “wow. I hope she has a good day. She deserves happiness.” And just end it there.
Replyyou're rational , i like your point a lot , you really gave me a solution .. thank you !
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