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I am hyper independent and I know you must think that it's an outcome of some terrible experiences in my life and I will not correct you there because you are right. Anyway, the thing with me is that I do not let people in easily. However, when I find someone who understands me emotionally and deeply, I seek solace in them and start depending on them. Of course, there is little to no codependency so there's no toxicity either. But, it makes my habit to tell them everything about my life because it makes me feel like I am not alone and it feels great to share things with them. However, I am thinking of changing this thing about me. I do not need to update my closest friends about everything because truth be told, it seems unnecessary sometimes. I do not want to come across as someone too needy. Even though they won't judge me but I do not want to live a life in which it's always me being the talker. When you are a talker, it becomes a habit to share everything, even if it's as little as how your day went. I don't know, maybe I am wrong to assume that I am being needy by being slightly dependent on them but I also want to save myself from relying on people too much!
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Relying on others and having needs is absolutely completely okay. It sounds like you know what's up and you may just be sliding into a comfortable (but perhaps unhelpful) mindset. You may just need more practice allowing yourself to rely on others! Sometimes it helps if you find reciprocal relationships where your friends also rely on you in a healthy way.
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