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i am currently a sophomore in college. i met this girl when i was a sophomore in high school. we became a thing and went through so much. the thing is, we just never got the timing right. i poured my love and she was toxic. she then tried doing the same but by then, i became reckless and blind. it went on like this till we graduated (right about when covid became a thing). around summer 2020, we hung out as friends but it felt strange. i then left to college and she drove 2 hours to see me. we both knew that she had feelings for me but i neglected her. i went through some shit around november 2020 - february 2021. after all this, i started getting my life back together and she texted me after so long.
we made plans to see each other and this time things were much different. instead of being a bitch, i decided to respect her and be more mature. when i finally got the chance to see her, i saw how much she had changed. she was healthier, prettier, dedicated, etc.
our conversation was quite extraordinary. we began talking about our past, since day 1. we were nothing but 100% honest.
we eventually got to the point where we said "and now, we're here."
it was then when i realized i had feelings for her and i felt something weird in my stomach. i dropped her off at her house and that was the last time i saw her. as i drove back home, i thought to myself how much i love this girl.
she went to mexico for an event with 3 friends, including one of my guy friends who've i known since freshman year of high school.
i find out a couple weeks later that she is now seeing my friend, and i feel completely destroyed.
since that day i found out about them, i can't stop thinking about her.
this sounds down bad and all, but i want to write her a letter and explain what i'm feeling. i don't want to propose anything but i just want her to know how i feel about all this. for her birthday, i want to send her flowers and that letter. i honestly don't care if she responds or not, but i just want to let it all out.
so should i send the letter or not?
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I think you should. Most of the time we regret things we didn’t do instead of the things we did. You should send her that letter and mention that you didn’t send it to jeopardize her current relationship. Tell her how you feel and how you felt you needed to let it all out. You can also tell her that you don’t expect a response or anything special.
If she doesn’t respond, at least you know that you shared your feelings and now you can move on to someone else.
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