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Why does being rejected feel so bad ?
It's almost been 3 years ,
And i'm still crying over this ,
How would i ever heal these wounds ?
Will i ever be someone who deserves to be accepted ?
How can i ever love myself , when no one around me accepts me ,
I'm tired of collecting my broken pieces ,
And there's no one there to love those rejected broken pieces again ....
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Don't search for love from someone, stop expecting but don't stop being YOU, just believe there is a right time for everything, god is always with you and he loves you unconditionally, so be positive,and see from a different perspective every one lives you it's just that not the way you want them to , so be as nice as you are , who deserves you will find you out some day my friend,take care
ReplyWounds aka trauma are hard to heal
But it takes time to pick up your pieces and put it back together
its alright
Rejection is hard, but its ok to be sad
I'm pretty sure somebody loves you deeply in their heart just hasnt showed it
(sorry if this comment doesn't please you)
ReplyThankyou for the comforting words
ReplyThere is always someone out there, you just haven't found that person yet. I know its cliched but you gotta trust the world. Even though it seemes absolutely horrible, trust me there will come a day when you will shed tears but of joy...
You are not rejected broken pieces , the person who did this to you is a fool, you are a magician full of postive energy. just start to love yourself , bit by bit. it will seem extremely difficult but one day you will make it...
Replyemotional trauma is the worst thing to deal with, especially rejection. and youve been dealing with this for such a long time :( its time, to start healing.
my advice for when something like this happened? reinvent yourself! do something, change your style, your life style, get that sleeve tattoo you always wanted, go and buy that designer jacket you wanted! just re invent who you are, let the old you take the trauma away.
it sounds silly, but it works,
good luck
ReplyI love this advice... do something you've held back on (so long as it's harmless ;-) )
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ReplyRejection feels bad because it feels like something is wrong with you. You subconsciously think, “If I wasnt me, would that person accept me?” In reality, its not you. Nothings wrong with you. It is hard to meet people because they rather be distracted then actually invest emotion and time with someone
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