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I am having trouble talking to guys... Especially good looking guys or guys that are very confident and approach me. Even if they just want to have a chat/hang out and are not interested in me in any other way... I still tend to get stiff and come off as awkward and rude:( And this is totally involuntary - I would love to get to know these guys (no specific one) more but with most of them it is just really hard...
The absolute hardest part is when someone is flirting with me... I guess I'm not used to guys showing interest in me since I've been bullied when I was smaller. I basically had a period when I stood out a little - I dressed in a special way and was a bit of a "tom boy".
However, I have totally left that period of time behind me now - but I think that I am not really used to guys even looking my way (because of my past me). So when they do I tend to get caught off guard and don't really know how to react or respond.
This problem has followed me through college, and because of it I have basically never had any "romantic" experience with a guy at all... Does someone have the same problem - and have you solved it? If not, any ideas or thoughts on help are appreciated... Thanks
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