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My bfs sister is so annoying. Everytime I stay the night at my bf (boyfriend) house and I cook something sometimes I get the dishes in the morning if I’m too tired to wash them. Then she will come over and put the dirty dishes altogether for me to wash and stack them up lol. To me that’s a bit annoying because for one she doesn’t even live there and two it’s like she’s trying to tell me to clean up. I’m a very neat and clean person but sometimes after work I may not get to them until that following morning. She’s been doing this for the past months and I just wanna tell her to f*** off but instead I do the dishes when I can. It’s never more than a day that goes by. Am I wrong for feeling this way or am I just over exaggerating??! Plus she comes over to feed the dogs and expects me to wash her dishes too. I never do. 😑 did I mention she just turned 40!!!!
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ReplyDishes are easier to wash after soaking overnight. Why would anyone want to scrub a pan for an hour and grind your fingertips to the bone just so the dishes are done right after you eat? That’s insanity! You’re not wrong at all. Maybe she’s trying to “help” but is too lazy to do more than stack. If she were that concerned about the dishes she’d roll up her sleeves and do them herself. Don’t let it bother you and be happy she stacks. Or even better, fake a hand injury and see what she does. That’ll bring out who she really is. Everybody does things at their own pace and I don’t think you are being unreasonable. You’re working, so why not relax after work. Good luck with that.
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