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Okay so first of all basics, I’m 16, female, and into other girls. One of the biggest problems I’ve had since realizing that I like girls is identifying whether my feelings towards people are platonic or romantic. I was diagnosed with autism a few years ago so I don’t know if that has anything to do with it or it I just suck when it comes to emotions. Usually though when I think it’s romantic I’ll just let the feelings sit there for a few weeks and if they’re still there then I’m almost positive they’re romantic. Currently I think I have a crush on one of my best friends. We’ve been friends since kindergarten and although I only see her like once I month I can’t stop making reasons to see her and get excited whenever I think of her. My brother is dming a new dnd campaign and had me invite her and a few more friends to join and although this might sound mean to all the other players I’m most excited to play with her, like it’s one of the things I’m looking forward to most about playing. I know like three or four years ago she had a crush on me but I was oblivious at the time and didn’t find out until months later when another friend explained why she was flirting with me and I don’t know if maybe my mind is just doing a weird thing where it’s making me like her because she liked me even though it was years ago. I’ve don’t that thing that people always tell you to do in these situations where they’re like “imagine kissing them” and honestly if anything it makes me feel happy and my stomach a little tight if that makes sense. Normally when I have problems with telling what I’m feeling I’d talk to my brother or friends but since they all know this person it’d be really awkward and kind of embarrassing. Since school is going to break starting this Saturday I was going to try to convince my mom to take us to an art museum or the zoo to see their Christmas lights (both of us only have our permits so someone else who would probably be my mom would have to take us). Anyway I’m just looking for advice or anything that could help me figure out what I’m feeling. If you made it this far thanks for reading and if you couldn’t tell I don’t know how to end these so I’m just going to stop typing lol.
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as someone who also feels things for her best friend, I relate! i was confused about my feelings at first, im a girl and we both have boyfriends... we have kissed twice but drunk. She used to tell me i was so pretty, the prettiest of all of our friends, and she would call me her 'gf.' We are roommates now and i look forward to her coming home from work, and we hang out every day, and this confuses me, I am not sure why I cant stop thinking of her, but if you find yourself thinking of her or dreaming of her then you are definitely falling in love with your best friend! In my situation, I have to keep my feelings to myself because its more complicated. But in your situation, I think you should tell her, when you think the time is right!
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