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I've always hated the idea of marriage and thought that after marriage the love and passion fades and always think what if one of us lost feelings?!
what if we got bored of each other... I see alot married couple that act like strangers after marriage even when they looked like they were so in love before it.
And the idea of living like this scares me..
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What if you don't get bored of each other. I've been married for nearly thirty years and love can become deeper as you both grow older together. You've just got to choose wisely.
ReplyU will know if that person is the one for u or not
ReplyAll those fear will be gone once you meet the person who will change that perspective and ease those fears. Marriage is a very beautiful thing but yes risky. Love conquers fear. Not because others lead to a failed marriage it doesn't it will be the same as you. Be positive. :)
ReplyWhen I realized after the first 10 years of marriage that it was not my wife's responsibility to make me happy, things went a lot smoother. Now, many years later, we are still together, still free of the burden of causing happiness for each other. I've concluded that when I proceed with anything without expectations (I still have preferences), happiness is who I am and it is from this posture that I interact with others.
Passion is an emotion that has peaks and valleys. When it fades, it can be replaced with other feelings that are deeper, richer, and more steady.
Boredom leads to efforts to find happiness, love, fulfillment (all the good stuff), in a situation that is not present. Whatever you find from this motivation will be temporary.
While it is good, even wonderful, to be in a lasting relationship, it is not required. You are already complete and are in the process of discovering that this is so.
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