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I've always had this issue that i can't talk if it's a group of ppl at the same time even if ik everyone of them and even if im close with most of them.
And when i told this to one of someone they said maybe because you always mirror the person your talking with and when it's a group of ppl you can't chose which one of them to mirror...
And now i can't stop thinking about it
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Practice makes a man perfect. Try talking to people more often, you'll get used to it and you won't feel like this again.
ReplyPractice makes a man perfect. Try talking to people more often, you'll get used to it and you won't feel like this again.
Replyso which one is your problem? not talking in the group or mirroring people?
mirroring is completely normal, you know. it's our way of connecting with each other. just because you are aware you are doing it now, does not mean you are wrong to do it. it's okay. you are making connections with people. that's healthy, i think.
as far as the group thing? you may not like interrupting people. you may not like having all the attention on you. you may be focused more on listening than you are on contributing. it could be any number of reasons and all of them are alright, unless it is hindering your personal goals.
if it is, then do what the other commenter suggested. practice. just remember that practicing means you are going to probably make a mistake. it's okay to make a mistake. just keep trying. you'll gain confidence and comfort with it eventually. it may not be who you naturally are, but you'll know that you are able to do it if you need to.
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