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I'm a middle schooler, eighth grader. I had this crush on a boy in my elementary school for about three years, and we were good friends. I'm sure he had a crush on me, because his friends always teased him about it, though he denied it in a flustered way. He was very nice to me, always trying to make me laugh by joking around, and he was kind of out of my league (he was a very attractive caucasian boy, I was above average looks for a korean girl.)
So we kind of lost contact once corona started. Actually, I never had his number or email, we just talked at school. And I met him after two years, because he was went to my middle school.
We weren't really friends anymore. Not because we fought, it's just we were separated for so long.
But I still have feelings for him. Whenever I see him, I get so nervous and also excited but also a little sad.
So yesterday I saw him in the hallway, and we made eye contact. I remember, I was like who's that kid, because I saw his blonde hair, but when I saw his eyes, I was like "omg that's my crush."
Then I pretended not to notice/recognize him and looked away. He looked kind of shaken when I walked away, and I'm wondering if he still likes me, because it's been so long and maybe he has a new crush.
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Umm I think he is the one who can answer this ..but if you still like him maybe you should atleast be friends. Or just talk since you used to be in same school earlier. Who knows he might be thinking that you forgot who he is and that is why you ignored him 💜
ReplyYeah, I'm sure it wouldn't hurt to do that. I feel bad for ignoring him a lot, though he never tried to talk to me.
ReplyIt's hard to know unless you ask. Maybe he still likes you, maybe he just misses you as a friend, maybe he was just shaken by seeing someone he used to know. You could try to rekindle your friendship, but you'll have to be ready to accept it if he doesn't want to be friends anymore. Some people just grow apart and never get close again. If you don't know how to start, you could try asking him how he's been all this time.
ReplyI'll be sad if he doesn't want me to be his friend. But he has a friend (that's a girl) who was my friend in elementary. We also lost touch, but she and her other friend (who I sort of knew before) is nice to me in my spanish class. Maybe that'll help?
ReplyIt might. I'd say it's worth a shot, worst case scenario you guys don't become friends, which already would be the case if you didn't try at all.
ReplyYou should 100% talk to him! Just strike up a conversation like "hey it's been a while" or just say "hi *whatever his name is*!" If you two were such good friends 2 years ago, it shouldn't be too hard to start talking again now. Good luck 💞
ReplyDon't live with regrets, talk to him. If things have really changed between you, you'll finally know for sure and you can freely move on with your life. Be bold, be fearless, be authentically you.
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