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HOLD UP DON'T COME AT ME JUST YET
When I fell for him, I didn't know he was in a relationship.
(I'm going to call him Jason for the sake of this post.)
I walked into my Geography class on the first day of school this year. I took a seat and in front of me sat this pretty normal looking guy. I shot him a couple brief glances now and then to try and study his features a little more and realised that compared to most of the guys in my grade, he was pretty decent looking and put together. He seemed to be really smart as well.
I mentally complimented Jason and when I realised, I jokingly asked myself if I liked him and then just shrugged it off and went on with my life.
Everything was pretty normal the first few days, however me and my two girl friends started a conversation one day. It was about how it was so weird that all the Jasons in our school were so similar: average looking, smart, not too tall, and most(if not all) of them wore glasses. I brought up the Jason from my geography class, noting the height difference between us as well. One of my friends took that as an opportunity to jokingly tease me about liking him, and I didn't like him up until this point, because after she did this I started questioning myself.
Everyday in class I would stare at him and ask myself if I really liked him and over time I guess I seriously started to like him.
However, surprise surprise, a few days after making this revelation I find out that he had a girlfriend. And I'm honestly happy for him, because they both seem to really like each other, but I feel guilty.
I'm not sure if I really like him or if I'm clinging onto the feeling of liking someone because it hasn't happened for years. However even though I'm not sure I still feel guilty for even thinking that I like him when he had someone he loves.
I need advice. Do you think I really like him? Am I wrong for still liking him? How can I stop feeling the way I do about him?
I'd appreciate even the tiniest piece of advice😭💔
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That's totally normal it isn't your fault you feel this.
p.s. theirs lots of 'jasons' out there.
ReplyHis real name is actually pretty common as well I just didn't want to use it just in case 😭
And also thank you :(💞 this has really been putting me on edge and I have no one to really talk to about it because they're probably going to misunderstand me
ReplyNo I meant there's other fish in the sea
Replybut still
ReplyOhhhhh my bad I thought you meant I used a common name😭😂
ReplyMaybe you thought that you liked him because your friend made a comment or you thinking to hard about it made you believe so.
But if you do really like him you just need sometime to overcome your feelings and you're not at fault and shouldn't feel guilty liking someone who was in relationship, things like this can't be controlled most of the time. After sometime you'll maybe stop liking him or just not think about it this much.
ReplyThank you for this it really made me feel much more at ease <3
And you could honestly be right :| my overthinking gets me in trouble all the time. This incident is no different :(
ReplyIt's okay, I think too much too and its not easy to just not think about it, when it's the only thing you can do.
I hope you'll be able to see more clearly in this situation soon enough.
And you're welcome, I'm glad I could help.
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