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today, i witnessed my mom and dad's worst fight yet. i wont go into details but it was, very bad. as my mom was screaming at my dad, all my father could muster up and say was "this is all your fault" while pointing at me.
i have been emotionally neglected and abused for the vast majority of my life. nothing has ever changed. is it my fault that my parents hate each other? is it my fault that my parents fight? why do they keep blaming me, when I fully know that my brother and I are the ones being hurt the most?
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I'm so sorry to hear this. You have horrible parents. Disgusting. Their anger is 100% their own, you are NOT at fault. Your dad sounds like a pathetic little man who can't control himself.
ReplyIt is not your fault. They should not be deflecting their pain and issues onto you and your brother at all. That is highly abusive and emotionally damaging. Your parents' fighting and hatred is all on them, and only pertains to them. If they're so unhappy they should divorce or live in separate homes and stop doing this to you two (or more if you have other siblings). I'm so sorry that you're in this position, but please, please know that you are not to blame. It is not your fault. It is never the child's fault, ever. It is the parents' responsibility to handle their own relationship issues and take responsibility in it.
ReplyDon’t do the same mistake as I did and believe it’s your fault. It’s easy to bury yourself is guilt. They are conscious adults aware of their actions and have the ability to make choices. If they get into such arguments I bet whether you existed or not they would still find reasons to argue. Why does he say it’s your fault ?
ReplyI would have said prove it. How? How is it my fault you're both yelling at eachother? I understand how you feel my parents never own up to their faults and want to blame me for their stuff too. I'm sorry you have to experience this.
ReplyThey blame you because it’s easier for them. They don’t want to take responsibility in their life or for how it turned out. They are the ones who choose to fight instead of fixing things and making things better for them and for you and your brother. Don’t ever think what goes on between them is your fault.
ReplyI am so sorry that you and your brother have to go through this *hugs*
You and your brother are not at fault. Get them to argue somewhere else instead of arguing in front of you guys.
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