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Two days ago February 15th 2022 4:30 pm my friend told me some shocking news.I was in the car going to my grandmothers house when I get a notification of a missed call.I then get a text from my friend saying she has to tell me something and that I promise not to get mad.I promised and then she proceeded to tell me that she likes my boyfriend I have not talked to her since then and I need advice if I should talk it out with her or what.
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Since you didn't get the chance to talk things through with your friend yet, I think it's best to go for the other person involved, aka your boyfriend. It'll be up to you if you want to tell him the full story or not, but I suggest the former since a relationship's all about trust and being honest anyway.
Also, based on the last part, you must be confused about how to react. If you feel like you need time alone and think things through, that's okay. But I think the best thing to do is by using communication. At some point in my life there had been some misunderstandings in one of my friendships and I didn't get the chance to talk to them, and, well, I lost 3 best friends in one go.
So yeah, communication is the key for this sort of situation you're going through. You might want to confide your thoughts to your boyfriend as well, like I mentioned earlier. Or if you want to lay low, ask him what he thinks of your friend. If he's talking casually, then it's most likely his relationship with your friend is all friendly-friendly only.
Oh and, if you choose to talk things through with your friend, make sure to ask if it's only a one-sided crush. If she says yes, then you have nothing to worry about. Although you might want to be cautious with the way she acts whenever your boyfriend's around in the future.
Anyways, that's the best advice I can give. Wish you the best of luck, stay safe!
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