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ranting any advice what i should do with her?
2 years ago · 2 · fading friendship, +2 · Explicit
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i dont want to be treated as a second choice, although im aware im not everyones main honor, nor subject not even a priority, but she is to me, and ive helped her since then.
I give her my advice, attention, kindness, nah whats the point and ive been doing it since the beginning, if i talk to her shell think somethings wrong with her, and then it starts all over again, then somehow we all forget about it and then she goes treating me the same again, she just wants to get it over with, and then call it a day with a sorry, she doesnt care why or show she does to be honest, "shes bad with emotions" is what i told myself and what she told me, but im dumb asf, she just never cared to try and give a shit. At least thats what i see.
Literally help her with her issues, everything, i put her above my other friends, because ive known her the longest, things not everyone else nor she could ever return to me, i know setting expectations would only hurt myself. But Damn.
As well as me doing the same mistake as of focusing on her and how to resolve her issues, while im failing, i put her above even myself, and although i set boundaries it still happens, i worked my ass of for her and others when they dont burn their ass for me, she can focus on temporary friends all she wants, its as if she cant apologize ive been trying for our friendship since we meet 8 years ago, she chose somebody else over me, until i called her out on it, but i would never do that to her would i? unless i knew what she did to me back then. Now she puts effort after all these years? after all those times i questioned myself, if i was too annoying or too rude towards her? when im just being treated the same as her other friends? damn i thought i would be special after all of this, guess not.
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Replyyou need to communicate with her. you're letting these things build up without telling her how you feel. you don't need to put her above yourself, you shouldn't, but i think you fail to understand her side of things. you need to tell her that you feel burdened by her emotions, and you guys can work out another way of dealing with them together
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