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I want him to text me. I feel if i text him, i may sound too eager. I like him alot. He ignores me....sometimes. I know, I know, it shows he's not interested in me. But i want him. Please help.
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try to get to know him better then
ReplyCant suddenly force him to have feelings for you sweetheart, if you really do want to pursue him then get to know him. But do know your limits, its not always worth it to go after someone who doesn't show interest in you.
ReplyThat’s true, thank you tho
Replyif you dont take the first step, you will never reach your dreams.
being eager isn't the problem, its what the other person will think thats stopping you
take the first step, and dont hesitate to ask how it going, for if you dont, you may as well never do
ReplyThank you, I will definitely look up to your suggestion
ReplyHe could be going through something and not functioning at a level he CAN be contacting you. I know how you feel. My friend treats me this way too and we’ll never be anything even though I love him. I don’t listen to any such talk I should be contacting him myself because I have, only to be ignored. If he wanted to be more than friends, he would be. There is no sense in being the dog who keeps pushing the lever that yields nothing. It’s better to just find the small shred of happiness in giving him what he wants in my case. It’s freeing to know you’ve already done all there is to do in the matter (in my case). Freeing and peaceful and helps me to just carry on with life enjoying what I can.
ReplyThank youuu <33
ReplyI know how you feel...I was in a similar Situation and I'm still, kinda.
I just want to let you know that you don't need any validation or attention from people that aren't interested, if they realize that they get their ego boosted from you they'll use that to their advantage and that won't end good for you neither...
I'm not saying to cut him off, you can try to first get to know him more and become friends with him without any expectation to get more out of it, because that will just set your expectations higher when he is being nice to you..
I needed to realize that from my own experience and I wish someone would have told me that earlier as well when my feelings for that person started.
Don't make it your daily goal to recieve a text from him, it will drain you.
When you got to know him better and the feelings are still there you can take the next step and maybe even confront him and tell him how you feel, you just need to be patient and don't rush anything ^ ^
If it's meant to be it will be :)
ReplyThank you so much <3
ReplySo it seems to be reversed. I know that you might think that i am biased being male. But eventually this always seen in male. I have same feeling for her. It is good to care for him and want message for him as long as it is not coming to your life. means like it is not affecting you. all the time all the thought are coming for him. You cant pressurized him or make him feel the same you are feeling. It takes time nevertheless you face this situation in front of him. I too believed that one side love is much more better. you should talk with him and don't be late. You maintain your friendship and you should be take this as mutual because i don't want that you are the only one who puts effort to maintain this. so keep clear in this mind you have your family. Your future . -Madara
ReplyThink about all the things you might have to do to get his attention and keep him interested.
Think about doing all of those things and he's still not interested.
Love yourself enough, make your presence known and if he doesn't respond... I'm warning you leave it alone. But if you feel the need to carry on in your pursuit, have fun while it last but guard your heart.
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