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Well it started like this. First my parents want to go out but they are indecisive on where to go. They asked me to go and I asked where are we going. They was still deciding so I went on to do my things. Then they were angry as I did not want to go out with them. I did not mention that I did not want to go. It's just to save time, I went to do my things while waiting for them, it's not that I did not want to go with them. Then in the end they did not want to go out anymore and they are angry at me. Why? What did I do wrong? I went and apologize to them but they are still angry at me because I didn't want to go out with them. I explained to them calmly about the reason and they won't accept it. So is it that they want me to sit with them and do nothing for around 1 or 2 hours for them to decide? When I decide for them, they always disagree with my idea so I prefer to let them decide. I really don't know what to do. I get blamed for things which I am not at fault. When I apologize, they won't accept it but when I don't apologize, they get even more angry. Why am I stuck in this situation? How do I get out of it? I can't move out because I am still a high school and I don't have enough money to move out although I try to save up as much as I can.
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Well you are not wrong technically they are.. So move out it's the best solution. your parents have a bipolar behavior and it's not good.
ReplyThank you for your reassurance😊. I honestly wish I can move out soon either to share a place with my friend or something because I know renting a place would be really costly. But I don't think that will happen because my parents are scared that I will stay with boys or my friends might bring boys over.
Replyyou arent wrong, your parent seem to misunderstand ur actions and overreacted. I think the best you can do is communicate with them, "while you guys are deciding, I will blah blah.. when you mkae up your mind tell me, becuase I want to go too". If they still end up overreacting, honestly ignore them. It's not your fault if you communicated directly and honestly
ReplyThank you for your kind advice 😊. Opsie, I left out a small bit. Actually I did mention to them that once they decided, they can let me know but I didn't let them know I'll be doing something else while waiting 😓. Although I left them alone to calm down, they occasionally barge into my room to scold me but I just keep quiet instead of being angry at them (context: I don't really like when they barge in my room without knocking) as I didn't want to make them more angry.
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