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I struggle to see my value as a person. I often wish I was different or acted differently, I'm very harsh with myself in some situations where I don't act the way I want to. Just recently I went out with some new people - I wanted to be social and talkative, but I felt uncomfortable and shy... I just wish I didn't care so much what people will think of me. It's sad to admit things like that but I struggle to see my value and why my friends, my boyfriend and my family like me... how can they like me when I don't even like myself?
I know it will all get better with time but I feel really tired from these thoughts rn.
If someone feels like giving advice or saying anything that will help, I'd really appreciate it :c thanks a lot everyone <3
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I think everyone feels the same way from time to time. Someone more often someone less often. There are 2 things feeling and acting. Those 2 things seldom match completely together. How can anyone like you when you do not like yourself? Very easily. You surely find someone good or you like someone for some reason. How many of those people you have said that you do like them?
Just take it easy (easy to say hard to do (sorry for that)) focus on yourself on your growth (personal, physical). Often things come when we do not expects them. So stop expecting, work on yourself and change will come.
Good luck
ReplyI think this constant 'comparing yourself to other people' will push you down to a rabbit hole. This driving motor in wanting to feel better, to look better, to be a better version of yourself. Although these things can be seen as a positive thing. In your situation, it is a negative, that can lead you into thinking you are a failure and can really lower self-esteem with yourself or other relationships. Maybe try to find the root of what is causing you to wish to act differently. It could be social media.
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