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Hi there... first I wanna thank you for taking your time to read this.
Recently I have been a mess. Even more than usually hah.. I've been overthinking everything since I can remember, even the small details that other people usually don't even notice. But that's just the way I am I guess.
So recently I've fallen for a guy. I don't know him very well, but I know myself and I know that I don't fall for almost any guy because I always find some kind of an ick just to have an excuse to get away before things start to get too serious. But he must be special since he made me not want to find any icks. The thing is, I thought that he liked me back. But now I see he has been texting my bestfriend. I don't know what are they texting about I just know it bothers me a lot. And she is that kind of a person that I know wouldn't betray me and I know she doesn't like him because he is not her type but she is just a friendly person and doesn't wanna be seen as rude, so that's why she always replies to him. She knows I like him but I didn't say anything about me being *angry* *sad* *jealous* about them texting because I don't want to make some sort of a drama over some guy. I love her and I don't want to fight over some mediocre guy. And I know she doesn't see him the same way that I do but I'm afraid that he does like her. And I hate the fact that he messes with us that way. I'm not gonna let him destroy our friendship but I just can't get rid of a feeling that I can't even describe...
What should I do?? xx
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If she is truly your good friend than telling her your feelings about them texting shouldn't be considered "drama over a guy"
She should be understanding of your feelings, we do things at times for the people we love just because we love them and they mean a lot to us. So even if she doesn't want to come off as rude, if she respects your feelings and you as a person she will be understanding of your feelings of anger,jealousy, etc.
Also... if he isn't showing any interest in you at this point. I wouldn't continue to put yourself out there for him, just because you hadn't found an "icks" doesn't mean you found *the one.* If he truly was the one, the process should of felt effortless. For both parties, not just one or the other.
ReplyIt is not good idea to get attached to someone who plays two friends. That sort of person doesn’t care about people that’s for sure.
Replytalk to ur friend ab this situation. you say she is ur true friend so i suggest 4 u 2 talk to her ab ur feelings ab everything. b not afraid but feel at ease of everything. trouble doesn't last always! u got this!!!! :DDDDD
ReplyYou have to try to put your jealousy aside, and try not to sabotage whatever friend zone type of friendship they have. Best of luck.
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