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Title's a bit dramatic but I have been gaslit to hell for the past 10 years by a man who swears he sees a future with me (while living in different cities) but in that 10 years has never once initiated or asked me on a date or asked me to come see him (i have physically gone to his city and he ghosted me on my birthday...i initiated)
you know the border between wanting to scream at someone until your lungs give out because of all the frustration but also wanting to give them absolutely nothing because they dont deserve it
how do you find peace in knowing they dont deserve your emotions
how do you stop giving them emotions
how do you hate someone you're convinced you love
i need a tattoo or something
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Replydisclaimer: I'm a man
And I agree men suck. I won't even get into stats on how almost all murders are committed by men. Certainly all wars are started by male politicians and their male generals. And last time I checked women don't go raping people like men do. etc etc etc
ok but more to the point of your post. dude 10 years is a lot to invest in someone. But I think you've figured it out, he's not serious. But here's a question... Think back to the beginning when he told you that he sees a future with you. Did he initiate that? Or..... is it possible that he was just mechanically agreeing with things you said? He sure doesn't sound like the type to make the 1st move, so I'm guessing you did. Maybe.... (I'm really sorry if this hurts...!) Maybe he's such a damn coward that when you professed your feelings for him, instead of admitting that he's not into you he went along with it and led you on?
That wouldn't excuse his behavior, but it might be an explanation why he's being a lousy bf... He didn't have the guts to tell you that it's not going to work. And now he's hiding behind a screen rather than getting serious about the relationship.
ReplyHave you seen women lately? On social media? They have their own let's manipulate men destroy men etc thing going. FOR NO REASON. likehaha its funny. NOT . Your feelings are valid but I think the saying applies not all men or women are like that.
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