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I am talking to this guy and we both like each other a lot. We are getting to know each other and we are spilling all our secrets.
We got on the topic about his friends, and I don't know how I feel about it now. In the past him and his friends have gone to strip clubs a lot. He claimed his friends sometimes would pay for s*x. He said he never did...
First of all I am not sure I believe he never did. Also that is so disgusting that he is friends with those kinds of people.
He told me he would do anything for me, even stop hanging out with them, but I still don't know whether I can get past what his friends do and where they go.
Should I let go of his past and just focus on us OR should I just end it now and not bother wasting my time?
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Everyone deserves a chance so you should focus on the both of you and when he goes out with his friends ask can you go too.
ReplyThe company he keeps tells you a lot about his values. They are in the gutter. I would avoid him. They don't respect women. Women are there to be used by the sounds of it.
ReplyI don't think you should listen to any random online people who tell you "end it" or "keep him" either way. Some people probably wouldn't mind that as much as others, so it's up to you personally to decide. However... People often make friends with others who are similar to themselves. Therefore if you don't like his friends that could be an indicator that he doesn't match with you very well either and is just showing you his best side at the moment. You can try to find out if that's the case by asking him questions about his friends, like for example... How and when did he meet them? What does he value about them? In what areas does he think he is similar/different than his friends?
To make the decision, you can ask yourself... Can you trust him that he would really stop hanging out with his friends for you? And if so, is that something you would want?
Also, did you notice any other areas where the two of you might be incompatible? What about your ideals of the future and relationships, do they generally match?
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