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Friends with benefits but its mostly doubts and awkward flirting
2 years ago · 3 · Need Advice, +4 · Explicit
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Ahhhhaaa so this is gonna be stupid to ask, and you have full ability to just be as brutally honest as possible, but is being friends with benefits[not smexy shit cuz ew] realllyyy a bad thing?
Like like yeah, ok ive heard the horror stories, my friend tried it with a dude she liked and it was not healthy in the fucking slightest
But
But but but
I dont know if im actually attracted to my friend[who's asked me out before, i said no cuz i wasnt sure] or if im just a leech attention seeker who wants to be fucking ego fed or soem shit
I dont know
I knoww they are like all over the place in terms of liking people cuz they have told me of the numerous other people they like [and that they like me still] so idk if its like pity or something? I dont
I dont know
Ok
Its stupid and i want to ask their opinion on it but how do i tell them 'hey so you know how I've said no b4? What if we ignore that cuz i think you're amzing and would happily date you and do be a couple but like if you want to leave you can cuz i know you like the smexy stuff and i dont and thats fine'??
Idk
Literally just annyyy advice or comments or fucjing yelling at me for being an idiot attention seeker would work
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Why don't you just ask them what they need or want knowing there is a difference in the two, you do the same, and go from there deciding if what you're thinking is doable or just a false fantasy that would never really happen for the two of you.
ReplyIt only ends poorly when both parties don’t have the same thing in mind
ReplyWell, FWB usually ends in a couple of ways, either they get married or never talk again. Can you imagine if your future spouse introduces you to his/her friend and a year later you discovered they used to engage in coitus simply for the fun of it. It will feel like a violation of trust, even though it happened in the past. Best of luck.
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