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I got married when I was 19. He was 22. We had to bc I got pregnant and we were the only family we had together. It's been 12 years. I love him dearly. He's awesome. I was so young and up for anything that would give me the thrill of being out on my own. None of it was authentic. But now I'm grown and have been living a lie in the bedroom. I hate that I have to peg him. Ugh. It was fun before we got married but I don't want to do it to my husband. It's just not my thing. It's not anything we can avoid. He needs it. I just have to cope.
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Hmmmm. Have you tried having a real, heartfelt conversation with him about your concerns, explaining your feelings about this? People grow and likes or dislikes change. If he can't roll with those changes then you become the one that suffers. And that simply isn't fair. I guarantee you that there is a way around what he wants and what you no longer want to do. You just have to be the mature one and figure out what that needs to be.
ReplyHe's bisexual and it's something that he needs in order to feel satisfied. He says, "It turns me on so much that you're into this! I love that about you." He also worries what I think about it. It's something that's tolerable but isn't my thing. It's not a judgement but rather something I just have to grit my teeth and smile about. It's not enough to make me miserable but ugh, I just love a masculine, powerful man and pegging really takes the air out of my sails on that one. I love him so I do it but I'm not cut out for that at all lol.
ReplyYeah. I feel ya on that. That's a tough one. He's happy but ur just kind of "meh" about it. That takes some dedication so good on you but I could see where it would takes its toll after a while.
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