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It is my last day in the intership and so I will never meeting my manager That I fell in love with ever again . Do you think This is the sadest part of the story? No .
I said goodbye to everyone there and They were all sweet to me .
He was not at his office so I waited for him to say goodbye ( Just like any other one )
But my surprise was He barely showed any interest when I came and I said Goodbye to him . He looked at me twice and He was busy signing the papers . I told him that Im so thankful and I hope i was good enough on professional level . He told me that my work was so excellent with such cold and bland facial expressions .
He was so nice in all the period of intership . But He chose to be this way to me in the last day . He didn't even wish me luck for my final project . I found it so weird based on the way he treated me before .
Aside from liking him , I gave so much for the intership .. didn't I deserve some motivational words from him?
Im feel so hurt that I want to sleep all day .
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It's really not standard procedure for managers to give motivational words to their interns when they leave. A simple goodbye and an acknowledgement of your standard of work would suffice. And that's what he gave you.
Time to let this be the end of the crush and move on.
ReplyThank you for your response .
It is Just the cold stare that I find it so hurtful . It felt like He hated me. And I kept asking myself what have I done , I did my best in those 6 months of intership , Why did I deserve this from him ..
I just hope he was just being a "manager" and not hating me .
About my love for him, I will never see him again so I have no choice but to move on eventhough it hurts
ReplyWas he possibly irritated or distracted, because you turned up at his office while he was in the middle of working, and expected him to validate you personally?
If it's not part of the office culture for a manager on his level to interact with the interns to that degree, then it would seem especially weird to him that you waited to track him down just to say goodbye.
Also, how long did you wait? Were you there after you were supposed to have left? If so, you'd have looked like a security risk.
I recommend reading Askamanager.org for learning how to compartmentalise your professional persona from your personal, inner self.
https://www.askamanager.org/2019/10/i-have-a-crush-on-my-boss-and-hes-being-standoffish.html
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