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I'm so tired of people never trying in our friendships/relationships. I try so hard to keep things going but no one else puts in any effort to even talk to me anymore. They only come to me when they need me. And I'm so sick and tired of it. I'm tired of people knowing I'll always be there for them without getting anything back from them. I'm tired of people taking advantage of me. It's so draining.
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May be they are just not the right people for you, and you are putting your efforts in the wrong place.
Ask yourself, why are you giving them importance?
What are you getting in return and why are you expecting in return.
People around you know you'll always be there ,so they take you for granted.
May be you are not as important to them, as they are to you.
Why are they so important to you?
Be SELFISH,by which I mean self priority.Love your self,give yourself importance,if you don't respect yourself others too won't.
I too was feeling the way you are feeling two years ago,it took me a while to let go off them. I stopped texting deleted thier number, I never got any message from them.
I did text them on their birthdays,that's the last from my end.I realised I had been watering dead plants.😊
Minimise contact from your end and see who turns up to check on you.
If none,then you got your answer.
This world has enough people to love you back, you just need to find the right place,time and people.
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Take care dear,lots of Love💗💕
Stay Happy and Blessed 💝
ReplyMaybe they don't feel like that's what you want.
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