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everyday passing by and am ghosting ppl slowly like why am i always the one to text first lol like why am the one to make efforts always . i tell myself i wont do this but then am scared of it as well.
am always glad i can help ppl and they come to me to open up but when its done i get used they dont even bother to look at me? like then again they will come to me but later they will ignore me lol like what i am?
i always feel blessed to be able to help and read ppl feelings and been always there for them.....but what about me whos gonna listen to me?
literally my heart is getting away from everything atp and everyone
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im sorry love. try to figure out whether they are good friends or not really, and if not, find new ones. thats easier said than done, but you deserve people who will support you. move on, figure out yourself. sometimes you need your problems validated and of course listened to. you are going to find your people. you are going to be ok. but being ok starts with yourself, not other people.
Replythank you :(
Replyit could be because of the way others perceive you.. sometimes people see you as intimidating or are scared to annoy you because they think you're quiet/aggresive type who doesn't like to be bothered by talks most of time, that's why they never text you first or initiate conversation.
go to r/socialskills, r/communicatonskills, and r/MakeNewFriendsHere on reddit
Replyso try to make some changes about your outer appearances and behaviours to make your acquaintances like you more.. you don't do it for your acquaintances' validation if they're shitty people, you do it to make the game more interesting of course because isn't it boring to be in school if you're not too involved. look on mirror and think for some moment how you come off to others, criticize some details about yourself. tinker with some stuff about yourself so that others won't look down on you and also won't get too indimitated by you too much. some shitty people when seeing someone as intimidating they like to see you as challenge to dominate, so even though you're not actually bad person they'll treat you like trash just to assert their dominance to others, making a show about power play, you get it? so be sly, be cunning, and get to know them more in indirect way. don't get too close to them, don't have attachment to them, just see life as game and they're characters you simply try to seek for more info to further progress in the game.
when you want to talk about problems, there are apps to make new friends, 7cups, and reddit. Good luck. Just entertain the people in public, make yourself not too alien to them, don't create impression you're their 'prey' to attack and k*ll. when you do it as I said here, life will be more interesting. It's the best coping mechanism that when something is not going so well, you don't take it seriously. So when you're at school, don't take the closeness to others seriously. But when you actually find great new friends, you treat your closeness seriously. Only the real ones deserve your commitment.
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