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I started dating this guy recently.
We were really close friends and then he confessed to me and I first rejected. Over time I realized I do think of him as more then friends and we started a few days ago.
He is honestly such an amazing person. He is sweet, considerate, reliable, smart, dedicated and a great friend as well as a boyfriend. He shows so much care for me and I have never felt so appreciated and loved. I love spending time with him and being near him but why is it that I feel uneasy at the same time?
I can't help but worrying when will this be over? But at the same time, there would also be problems if it lasted forever as well... Realistically I don't know if we can stay together till the very end and it scares me to get attached to someone so strongly if I know that the most likely conclusion is that it will be over one day.
When I spend time with him I'm so happy but when I'm alone I start getting scared and I feel uncomfortable with the idea of a relationship. It's not him that I'm uncomfortable with but the idea of me being a girlfriend and having a boyfriend makes me irrationally scared for some reason. Maybe it's because my previous relationship wasn't the best and didn't last very long despite liking him very much..? I don't know but I'm a bit stressed every time I'm alone and I don't want to talk to anybody about this.
He is honestly everything I wanted in a guy personality-wise. He makes me really happy and I feel so safe around him. But at the same time I have moments where I feel like I can't do this and want to run away.
Just wanted to write this down...
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Ur fear is justified. I think u know somewhere that it is not going to work and u don't like him by ur heart but just as a friend only. See ur innerself u love someone else not him. Consider deeply before forcing or else you will regret.
Advice from a friend. ✌️
ReplyStay friends with him for now. You might think differently later on.
ReplyIt seems like you may not be ready to be in a relationship at the time. And if that's the case then you shouldn't be in one. Let him know that's how you're feeling and see if you two can go back to just being friends.
ReplyThis relationship is special and should be cherished, appreciated, and enjoyed for as long as it lasts. There is quote be some great poet "It is better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all".
You (and all of us) on this life-long journey to discover and reveal our best selves. It's important and valuable to travel with those going in our direction and at our pace. This relationship should continue and develop naturally as long as the benefits for doing so are mutual. If this changes, both of you would be better off going your separate ways. Don't let the fear of a remotely possible end disrupt what is here right now.
You are blessed to have each other. Oh, and don't forget to laugh a lot. That's important too.
Replythank you so much this is honestly what i really needed to hear
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