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I haven't talked to this friend (I'll call him Michael) in a while. A few months, back my other friend had an issue Michael and asked for advice. I never got any news regarding it, so I thought it was already solved. I commonly scroll through facebook whenever I'm bored and notice that his vibe or movement was different. The fact that he didn't interact much in our group chat and our mutuals friends, put me off. So, I asked my friend if the problem was solved. It was not. As weeks and months passed, I started to get a bad feeling like a gut feeling or an intuition that I had to converse with him. I haven't really talked to him personally in years and only did in group chats. When he chatted me up recently like two weeks ago, I really felt like something was off. Then this week arrived, on Monday my gut feeling was going haywire, kinda like it saying I should talk to him immediately soon. I already thought of meeting him next week.
My literal plan was to chat him to meet-up with me because I'm worried about him. I don't mind on what he'll do with his other friends due to the issue tbh, it is his choice. I am still going to meet with him no matter what outcome will be.
Now for my question. I am not really a "soft and feminine" person. Outside and inside my friendship group, I am literal the "cold woman" I don't dabble in feelings (cause of personal reasons lol). I'm worried he might take my actions the wrong way... like romantically. I am very blunt I will really say that "I am worried about you" to his face. He really seems like he's in a tough spot. And the movements and stuff that's going to happen seems like some kind of romantic novel or cliche. This feels like overthinking, but people can really fall in love anytime. And for your information, I would be okay with it lol, but I won't be able to reciprocate 'cause I am extremely busy.
So yes, I am wondering if he would take it the wrong way. Any opinions would be nice thanks in advance.
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blunt honest. You claim to be able to do it with other people. Why are you changing your theories now?
ReplyOh I might’ve phrased it wrong and probably also didn’t add more info (if so sorry). I am blunt and honest but I don’t really say everything without being asked cause I don’t like “oversharing?”. But I guess you’re right it doesn’t hurt to be more open about my intentions. Thanks~
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