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How to get revenge?

5 months ago · 6 · with no friends, +10


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I recently split with my two close best friends. It was very messy but in the end worth it and I thought we handled it very maturely. Well, they seem to feel the need to inform me that they are having fun without me and meeting up, through snaps tagging each other.

I never thought anything of it, but a few minute ago one of my former ex-best friends send me a snap tagging the other, when she usually never uses snap.

Listen, I get that this may sound super childish, but I am just super hurt. These two meant a lot to me and to see that they get along so well without me hurts like hell.

I guess the best thing to do in this situation is to do nothing, but do you have a little idea for some “revenge”? Like a little clap back ?

Or is that as childish as what they are doing right now?

I appreciate your help and hope you have a nice day!

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  • Nonayah · 5 months ago

    If I were you, I'd make fake snaps of me being successful (Job, earning a certificate, reading a book, or taking a snap at some other place, or a snap with a "new friend"?) to make them jealous.

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    • canibeacloudinthesky · 5 months ago

      oooh this one sounds pretty good, don't go too far with faking it tho because they'll probably find our one way or another, make it a mix of making ordinary stuff you do seem super cool and stuff, and join a club or a big friendgroup, and ignore them if they talk to you so it's easier not to expose urself

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  • Novni Guest · 5 months ago

    If you want nothing to do with them anymore I'd just not talk to them.

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  • Novni Guest · 5 months ago

    i think if i was in your shoes i'd deactivate my snapchat and just make a new account in a few months (if i wanted snap) and not add them

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  • Novni Guest · 5 months ago

    I say don't stoop to their level. I don't have snap, but if possible, unfriend them or block them or delete that acct and make a new one and block them or something like that. And ignore whatever games they try next as all their trying to do is mess w/ you & get a reaction from you.

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  • Pearl · 5 months ago

    I think it won't be worthy.. because then you'll probably end up in a loop of doing things you actually don't want to do but are doing just because you want make them feel jelous.. If you don't want to be in contact with them just unfriend them and I don't think it should be problem since you guys have already split apart .. plus keeping them any connections with them will only make you feel sad about yourself.. So just cut off connections completely ...

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