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being too nice hurts me
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Does anybody relate?
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ReplyLook at it this way, treat people like you want to be treated. There are those that take advantage of kindness and thinking its weakness. Its not. You mark those people because they are usually users and bullies jerks etc you want to avoid. Being kind is awesome but if it isn't reciprocated its pretty draining. That's when you just say hi then go on save it for those who will return it. Like would you rather someone be kind to you or talk to you like a rottweiler? People either don't appreciate kindness or aren't very kind much anymore in my life and yet when you treat them how they do you they get mad. Go figure? Just try to be a good human to others its not a lot to ask or hard to do.
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