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So, I started high school this year and it made me realize just how much I am alone. I find talking to people extremely exhausting but I really wish to find someone who I would get along with. Most of the time I pretty much think that I should just learn to accept being alone and focus on school until I won't think about anything else. But thinking back on how excited I used to be about meeting new people, it really just kills me inside how hopeful I was. I wish I wasn't scared of social interactions, I wish I wasn't so awkward, I wish I just could change. I already had a painful ride with managing my depression, so I don't think I have the energy to change how I'll behave for a long time. But right now what I really wish for is that I would no longer be lonely.
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ReplyOmg hey! I just started high school as well to be awaken by the fact that I have a horrible home life. So to deal with it I stay afterschool doing Drill for 30 minutes than soccer for 1-3 hour depending if we have a game or not. Although it helps with one aspect it just makes my academic life harder cause I be forgetting about assignments. But I do just want to say I understand your feeling of loneliness. I literally had two panic attacks because of it yesterday. All I can say is how you are feeling your not the only one. And I am also hoping you find someone that will help you get through your struggles. Best of Luck and also just because your at a big low for now, don't mean it's gonna be like that forever.
ReplyHey, I'm a sophomore in high-school but I'm home-schooled. It can be hard connecting with people. I finished the 6th grade and I'm going to do my last 6 years online. {off subject} The best thing to remember is to just be yourself. High-school is very overrated you stay there for a short time even though it feels like forever. Most people are trying to figure out where they fit in and morphing themselves to do that. Just don't do that be yourself and I promise you you will make friends. It's just like kindergarten where you become friends by sharing a crayon, though most kids don't realize that. Just be real don't be fake because when you get out in the real world you will realize being fake doesn't get you anywhere in life.
ReplyListen, I'm not much older. I am a junior in high school, but I relate to you on a deep level. Before I started high school, I was very excited and hopeful for meeting new people. But as I started, everything changed. This may not help much, but sometimes going through things alone is better. It doesn't feel nice for awhile. But the sooner you realize that it is okay to be alone sometimes, the easier things can get. Of course, it's always nice to have people and not feel so alone, I understand that. And also, it is completely okay that you won't be able to change for awhile. Changing the way you feel about things and coming over different problems you have is a process. Take your time. Let yourself heal from any trauma, deal with any feelings you are having. Just know that while you are healing and working to better yourself, you are not alone. And you don't know me, but you are worthy of being loved, and happy. Everything will be okay.
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