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Why is my boyfriend going to a house party that I told him he couldnt go but hes going because all his single ass friends are going. if youre in a relationship i feel like you shouldnt even be going to these little stupid parties. like youre an adult now parting shouldnt be in your agenda AT ALL. idk please need advice right now am i being too toxic and dramatic or i dont know please lmk.
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At some point partying gets old…or we get old? But others never grow out of the partying phase. Either way, your concerns/feelings should be heard. Maybe clear your mind and recognize what is it about these parties that you don’t like?
Replyi got over my party phase when i got a boyfriend. i been telling myself theres no need to go to a party if i have a boyfriend. the right time to go to a party is if i was single ofc i would be down to party but going to a party with friends who are single i dont know what his intentions are at that party. i text him every 5 minutes but it seems to me that he turned his phone off. which is making me heart break by the minute.
ReplyI don’t think you’re overreacting or being toxic. You have reasons why you wouldn’t be there so it’s fair to ask why is your boyfriend there. What are his intentions? If he’s out with his friends do you generally trust him or do you have reasons not to trust him? These are in no way meant for you to answer on here but just how I would think this through to myself.
ReplyI don't think you're being either of these. That's how I am with my boyfriend, I hate him going out because of who he'll see or what his friends are gonna influence him to do. I basically think about how he only needs me to hangout and it's a pretty damaging mindset to have because all in all it's pretty hard to get somebody to only hangout with you.
ReplyYou are being both. You have different lives, to begin with. You can't expect your partner to be with you 24/7. Trust your partner, and if he breaks it. Then he's not the one for you. There are others out there. You deserve better.
Don't make your partner a prisoner, you are not a warden.
You are two different people with two different lives before you meet.
And the question is why would you not let him enjoy parties with his friends?
I would pick my friends over a girl who hold me in the neck, no hate but just honesty.
ReplyWhy didn't you go to the party with him?
ReplyGetting in a relationship is hard work, it requires a lot of hard work. But you don't own him, and he does not own you. If you are a mature woman, you would let your partner hang out with his friends, if you are not then that means you are insecure of yourself and that you are scared that your boyfriend would meet someone better than you. You are not dramatic but you are in the verge of being the toxic one in the relationship. If he is loyal to you he would know his limitations and boundaries. If not, then I suggest find yourself a man that does.
ReplyDon't worry if he goes ONCE, but if he makes a habit of going out without you and puts his friends first then you will have a problem and so will he.
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