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I don't know what is the deal with me. I am not ashamed to be acknowldedging the fact that I have PTSD from my past toxic relationship where I was abused. Of course I am prone to trauma response and has moulded my personality to a people pleasing naive over caring one. For the past three months I have tried my best to come out of my shell from past bad phases where am no longer able to see green flags and yperaware to unecessary red flags. It took me a lot to cope with anxiety and social fear and overcome it and then meet and greet new people in my surroundings. Sadly I had been craving for a partner or a unlabelled relationship which may make me feel I exist and I could vent out my feelings and emotions. Now I stand with constant rejections for which the reasons are I am being concerned and naive. I think am becoming ice cold.
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I hope things will improve for you.
ReplyMe too
ReplyIn what way were you abused?
ReplyAm sorry that I can't think and type here as it triggers me again
ReplyYou are not becoming ice cold. Rejections hurt. You don’t have to please anyone. They can just accept you and see you for you. It will take time to build a relationship where one can see you for you.
ReplySo nice of you :)
ReplyYou may need to take some time being single and heal and work on yourself. It may be more beneficial to find a friend or therapist to talk to instead of finding another partner/relationship.
ReplyI have some close friends to whom I can vent out and am glad about it. But yea thank you
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