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We've been together for 10 years. He is a narcissist. I have finally decided to divorce. Now he is asking not to leave him. He is telling that he is ready to go to therapy and take medication. He was very abusive all these years. He used emotional blackmail, manipulation and so on. And now he wants to become a different person. But I am not sure if I still love him....
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just remember that you decided to leave this relationship for some reason and it takes a lot of strength to get to where you are right now. I wouldn't trust him but rly you're the one that knows him best. id say just remember why you're doing this, if he was abusive for years changing like that isn't rly possible
ReplyYou chose to leave him for a reason. Even if he actually wants to change, leaving him does not make you a bad person at all. You need to put yourself first right now and you need to do what you think is right. No matter how much changing he does in the future, the past still happened. He has still hurt you. Do whatever you need to do. It may be hard, but you'll get through this <3
ReplyCheck with a professional but I don't think his condition can be treated (resolved or managed) with therapy or medicine.
ReplyLeave him. It will be the only thing that will force him to change. Just hope he realized what his selfish behavior did to those he "supposed" loved
ReplyThis is another manipulation. Run!
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