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My dad has been ignoring for half a year while living in the same house
2 years ago · 3 · Need Advice, +1
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I fell in love with a guy from another country. We met while he was doing an internship here, i fell in love with him and we started having a relationship together. My dad does not agree because he thinks he had to approve of him before I started seeing him. My dad and I had a lot of issues because of this. He does not share anything with me nor his thoughts about it, he just ignores me. While we live in the same house i am dead to him. I dont know what to do, it kills me to have to live like this. Right now me and my boyfriend are doing long distance and I feel alone in this situation. Negative thoughts and sadness is consuming me, i have been experiencing panic attacks and how loving my mum and siblings are, they dont supporting me in this, not enough anyways. I dont know what to do, sometimes everything is just too much for me too handle.
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I'm sorry, it sounds like a shitty reaction from your father. Just move on. If people, no matter who, treat you like you're invisible for something they perceive you should've done, just move on. The situation doesn't warrant the reaction. Sounds harsh but sometimes in life we have to move forward without a parent, sibling or friend.
ReplyYour dad's a total butt-hole. I'm a little saddened that your mum hasn't been able to step in and get him to come off his ego-trip, but ultimately, this is entirely his own messed-up behaviour, and I guess he just can't be reasoned with. His entire attitude was unreasonable from the get-go when he thought he deserved to vet the people you spend your time with.
I give you permission to disown your father. You don't deserve the silent treatment from someone who cares more about some messed up power games than having a healthy relationship with his own daughter. What a nasty, bullying little man he is.
ReplyHe might be worried about you. He probably thinks that your boyfriend is not the right person for you . It seems you disappointed from him. That behaviour is harsh but Try to talk to your father ,He's your father afterall.
Prove him that you have made a right choice .
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