Should I give him the second chance?

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• Novni Guest · 2 years ago

  In my opinion feelings can come and go. And because of that how you momentarily feel might be less important than whether he was a trustworthy companion in those 8 years. 8 years isn't a short time after all. But I also have to note that while I firmly believe in that you should not end something solely on the momentary feelings if things go well otherwise, but I also do believe that feelings often indicate that other things aren't going well either, only you might have not noticed it consciously yet. So the real question would be then: What exactly went wrong, and is it worth it to repair?

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• Icareaboutyou · 2 years ago

  Remember you vows to each other, "till death do us part, for better or for worse."

  If he wants a second chance, give it! Believe in love and fight for it :) Remember the reasons you guys fell in love and how it all was set in motion. A death til us part love is so beautiful, don't throw it away! Things may be tough right now, but they won't be forever.

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  • Icareaboutyou · 2 years ago

    Look up Adam Lane Smith on YouTube, he can assist you in all of this.

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• AllHailTheGlowCloud · 2 years ago

  Even if he were to sincerely put in the effort, and transform into the person he should have been 8 years ago (Big 'IF')... would you be able to genuinely put your heart back into this relationship and recover all the trust, and warmth, and commitment? I suspect not. Toast can't never be bread again.

  I wish you all the best in moving on from this relationship.

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