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2 months ago · · Stress,
I have the most perfect family- me, my brother, mom and dad. A happy little family of four. That was until a few months ago actually. My brother was suspecting that my dad was having an affair with someone else but everytime he shared it to me, I brushed it away by saying that proof is what will make me believe it. As days went by and I actually started to notice my dad's behaviour; I also felt that he was having an affair- always being on the phone, video calling or texting, moving the phone or turning it off whenever someone was around,etc. Things went worse when my brother found chats between him and that woman and sent me screenshots. I couldn't deny the facts anymore nor run away from it. My parents' relationship went from being on top of the world to dust, from talking everyday and spending time together to not talking at all. Dad remains our of the house most of the time and whenever he is in the house, he is always on the phone, his mood swings change in seconds and small things from my mom triggers him for no reason. I need help on how to approach this matter. My dad isn't someone who is hated or disliked by any- he is always supportive and caring and loving. Living in such a culture that I am from, it makes things like these very hard. I reach out for advice on how I should deal with this matter.